Phyllis M. Bork

_2Phyllis M. Bork, age 81, of Adams, Wisconsin passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 8th, 2014 at the home of her daughter after a courageous battle with cancer.

A memorial gathering will be held Sunday, October 12th, 2014 from 11:00 a.m. until 2:30 p.m. at Roseberry’s Funeral Home in Friendship, Wisconsin. Private interment will be at the Mt. Repose Cemetery.

Phyllis was born July 1, 1933 in Adams County, Wisconsin to William and Louise Heitman. After graduating from Adams-Friendship High School she married Howard Lee Bork on July 28, 1951 in Grand Marsh, Wisconsin. This marriage was blessed with five children. From 1980 until 1998 Phyllis & Howard owned and operated Bork’s Bar in Adams. Until her passing she talked about all of the wonderful memories, long lasting friendships, and how their time at Bork’s Bar were some of the best years of their lives.

Phyllis enjoyed flower gardening, visiting the casino, listening to country music, and especially spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Phyllis was preceded in death by her parents: William & Louise Heitman; husband, Howard Bork; infant daughter, Debra Lee Bork; sisters: Ella Heitman, Margaret Gibson, Arlene Oakes, and Mina Zellmer; brother, Bert Heitman; sister-in-law, Rita Robertson; brothers-in-law: Harry Gibson, James Oakes and Edward Oakes; nephews: Roger Oakes and Dennis Zellmer.

Survivors:
Daughter: Peggy (Dan) West of Friendship, Wisconsin
Daughter: Susan (Joe) Smith of Friendship, Wisconsin
Daughter: Patricia (Delbert) Renner of Friendship, Wisconsin
Son: Raymond (Sandy) Bork of Green Bay, Wisconsin
Grandchildren: Jason Kirsenlohr, Joshua Kirsenlohr, Daric (Tina) Smith, Jessica (Chris) Moore, Dustin (Tracy) Smith, Megan Bork and Ian Bork
Great-Grandchildren: Teagan Kirsenlohr, Mara Kirsenlohr, Makena Kirsenlohr, Luke Moore, Lincoln Smith, Bianca Smith and Cadence Smith
Sister-in-law: Lila Oakes of Friendship, Wisconsin
Brother-in-law: Tom Robertson of Adams, Wisconsin
Further survived by many nieces, nephews, relatives and friends

The family would like to extend a very special thank you to the Tomah Hospice Touch staff especially Gail and Bonnie for all of their wonderful care.

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Condolences

  1. Tom McKinley says:

    Sorry to hear that Phyllis has passed away. She, and Howard, were always good to me.
    My condolences.

  2. Dennis and Judy Allen says:

    You are all in our thoughts and prayers, find comfort in your memories.

  3. Jerry and Wendy Pierce says:

    Sorry to here of Phyllis passing. Remember the good times you shared with her. These are the things that will stay with you. The hard parts will pass with time and the memories will burn brighter.

  4. Scott and Kelly Hill says:

    Ray….so sorry to hear about your mother’s passing. It was so wonderful to see her this summer out at the campground. Cherish all the memories we had growing up, although sometimes I think we really tested her patience, but knowing her she handled it and of course put us in our places. From little brats to drunks on the bar stool….your parents were always there for us..and will always be in my heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  5. james humt says:

    Ray , and the Bork family :
    Sorry for your lost , she will be missed

  6. Dennis Bubla says:

    Sorry to hear of your loss…I remember Ms. Bork when I was a small child in Adams County. She was our neighbor. Very nice lady. Always had a smile for us. May she rest in peace.

  7. valerie mecklenburg says:

    Sorry to hear of your loss…

  8. Nancy Pedersen says:

    Sending my deepest sympathy to the family of Phyllis. So many fond memories of spending time with Sue, Peg and Phyllis and Howard. Then not to mention, the connection between Ray and my brother Mike. Many good times and oh so many laughs (WHEW!). It’s the memories that will pull you through this sad time in your lives. Thinking of you.

  9. Greg Manthey says:

    Ray and family. I just read about your mother’s passing and when I saw her picture it brought back so many memories. Your mother was a great person and I enjoyed knowing her and of course your whole family. Our thoughts go out to you during this time. We are so sorry to hear the news….

  10. Roger and Judy Wagner says:

    I just heard this weekend while in Illinois. I am so shocked and sorry for you all. Your family has been part of my family all of my life. I’m so glad that I got to see your mom last year. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

  11. Jeff & Laurie DeVaney; Iris Patzkowsky says:

    We are all so sadden to hear of Phyllis’ passing. Growing up, I remember many happing times spent at Howard and Phyllis’ home with Patti; and as I got older, the times spent remembering the “good old times”! May you find comfort in each other and hold each other close. May she rest in peace and you find joy in remembering the good times. We now have another Angel to watch over us. Rest in Peace Phyllis.

  12. Katy Bushmaker says:

    Patty and family, Sorry about your mom. I remember way back from grade school as well as our high school years. She was a neat fun lady. I know this is hard…Always remember/feel how blessed you were to have her as long as you did. Hugs to all. Katy

  13. Brenda Quinnell says:

    Peggy, Sue, Patty & Ray,
    Our deepest condolences, and so sorry that we were not there to extend our sympathies in person yesterday. Please know that our abscence was not a reflection of caring, for our hearts were with you. Prayers for peace and healing.

  14. Dorothy Berth says:

    So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Cherish the memories.

  15. Lori Thurber says:

    So sorry to hear the news. Ray ,and the rest of the Bork family, I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom was kind and funny. My mom was born in 1933 also it was a great year,and I believe they will have happiness ever after.

  16. LaVonne Scott says:

    Goodby to my old golfing partner–there was no one like Phyllis- she will be missed.

  17. Karen and Don Rathke (Hartwig) says:

    So sorry for your loss. Your Mom was a nice lady. You all take care and prayers for family and friends.

  18. Haarvey & Ruth Peterson says:

    Our sincere condolences to the families. We hold the memories in our hearts forever
    .

  19. Robby, Jackie Yost says:

    Our condolences to the family.

  20. Brownie says:

    S0 sorry for your loss

  21. Bob & Kim Bezemek says:

    Our prayers and condolences to the entire Bork family on the loss of Phyllis. We are glad Bella was their to be a companion to her in her final days.

  22. Peg & Jerry Johnston says:

    Sue & Joe the rest of the Bork family. We are sorry for your loss.
    Think of all the memories from way back when. At least you know your parents lived
    with a very full life, I know what your going through – but I know at this it will take
    much time to heal.
    Jerry and Peg

  23. Dean & Donna Kirsenlohr says:

    Bork Family-sorry to hear of your loss. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Dean & Donna Kirsenlohr

  24. Doreen Schultz says:

    Memories are the legacy of love. Your Mom will be deeply missed.

  25. Shelon & Donna Sundsmo says:

    Peggy, Sue and the rest of the families WE are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

  26. Jackie Marti says:

    Phyllis you will be missed. You were not only my boss but a friend. I have sooooooooooo many memories of Howie, you, and I.
    Suzie, Peggy, Patty, Ray and all Bork family…I am so sorry for your loss of a wonderful woman. I always say, “Keep those memories close and laugh often.” Hugs to you all.

  27. Gordon and Mary Lee Klaus says:

    Sorry to hear of Phyllis’s passing. She was a friend to all who knew her and she will be missed. Thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.

  28. Kevin Eggebeen says:

    Phyllis was here and Phyllis was there
    Phyllis seemed like she was everywhere
    The alley walk from the house
    To her spot at Bork’s Bar
    The presence of Phil was never too far
    I’ll never forget the first time we met
    The bloody mary she made is still one of the best
    Deer hunting in Adams, I will always treasure
    Her Friday night venison, a mouth watering pleasure
    Strong and persistent, Phil was always on top
    A hard working woman, whom you could never stop
    A family so close, showing love for each other for each other
    Knowing Phil would be close to love as a mother
    I am fortunate to have been a part of this love
    Knowing Phil is at watch from heaven above

  29. Wendy Ritchie says:

    Our condolences go out to the entire Bork family. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. George and Wendy Ritchie

  30. Susan Wilkinson says:

    Ray, Sandy, Megan and little Ian, so sorry for your loss. It’s never easy even when you think you’re prepared. Difficult no matter what. My thoughts are with all of you and your family.
    Susan Wilkinson

  31. Wendy Zeratsky says:

    Ray, Sandy and the Bork family,
    My sympathies at the loss of your beloved mother. My thoughts are with you.
    Wendy

  32. Karen Tobin says:

    Ray and Sandy,
    So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. So glad that Ian arrived in time for his grandmother to know him. I’m sure he brought her much joy and comfort as she struggled with cancer. Hold Ian, Megan, and each other close in this difficult time.

  33. Pam Collins says:

    Thoughts and prayers to the Bork family, many memories of her during my early “adult” life! A wonderful, funny lady, but stern when needed!

  34. Paul Sheffer and the housekeeping staff says:

    My condolences, thoughts, and prayers are with you at this time of greivence. Sounds like Phyllis was a kind and loving lady that everyone loved as well. Rest assured she sits in a great place call heaven and keep her memories close.

  35. Jacki Jenerson says:

    Ray and Sandy and Bork family: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you celebrate Phyllis’s life and share fond memories of her during this difficult time.

  36. Pat Pietrzak says:

    Sympathy to the family. I know she’ll be missed by all of you.

  37. Sue Glinski says:

    Patty and Ray – I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom. I have many wonderful memories of Bork’s Bar growing up as it was the place to hang out, from “peanut night” to bowling on the Bork’s Bar bowling team. It’s the little things, the small, everyday occurrences that you’ll remember. The laughs, the stories, the smiles. And even though it seems like you can never recover from your loss, it is these very memories that will help push the pain away and bring back the smiles. May God bless you and all your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs!

  38. Lori Ward says:

    So sorry for your loss. Phyllis was an awesome lady. I got to know her when her and Howie owned the bar. We had many good talks and happy times. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. R.I.P Phyllis.

  39. Shelley Kroupa says:

    Peggy so sorry to hear of Phylis’ passing. She was always so much fun and kept us hoodlums in line when necessary 🙂 !! She was a cool lady and I have fun memories of her and I’m sure many other people do as well.

  40. Bob & Aletta Grabarski says:

    To the entire Bork family, Your folks raised a wonderful family that hold community involvement and support in high regard. I’m confident of your mother’s pride of the family they raised and what a fitting tribute to their legacy. What a wonderful woman who may now rest in peace. God speed to her entire family.

  41. Larry & Evelyn Johnston (York) says:

    We are so sorry for your loss. May the Lord, give you strenght at this time. Praying for peace and comfort for all.

  42. Jim and Sally Dummitt says:

    So sorry to hear about Phyllis. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  43. Scott Waller says:

    Very sorry to hear this news. Growing up in A-F I have many great memories of Phyllis. Playing Little League with Ray on the Cubs and Phyllis and Howard being at most games. The high school and college years and Phyllis putting up with our antics with a smile and on occasional a word of advice that in retrospect we should have taken. The many festive evenings at Bork’s Bar. Just great times. My condolences to Ray and all the Bork family on your loss. She was a super lady. I thought the world of her.

  44. Judy Alderman says:

    So sorry for your families loss.

  45. Jo Ellen Brown says:

    Patty and family, I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  46. Sherry and Harry says:

    So sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers are with you all. She will be greatly missed by all . Harry and I had wonderful times with her at the bar. And who can forget our casino trip (Josh) after the bar closed till 8 am in the morning and a lot of snow . I will have very fond memories of her.

  47. Sandy Rogers says:

    Patty and family,
    So sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. Remember all the good times you and your family had with her and hang on to those memories . Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

  48. Dawn Hanson says:

    My thoughts and prayers goes out to your families. Always cherish the memories that you have with your mother.

  49. Bernie Soley Roggenbauer and Esther Soley says:

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn the loss but celebrate the life of your Mom. May your memories and love wrap their arms around you and give you peace and comfort.

  50. Loren Lecy and Peg Henriksen says:

    MAY God family and friends comfort you during this difficult time. As you hold each other close share your memories of Phyllis. She was a great lady